For whatever reason, losing a little life is a heartbreaking experience.
Here, there is no judgment, only understanding and assistance.
Ah Yuan's Stance:Handling Fetal Spirits is an issue that needs to be addressed seriously. I will not use scare tactics to frighten you, nor will I say "if you don't handle it, such-and-such will happen." Every situation is different, and I will provide advice based on the actual circumstances.
A Fetal Spirit refers to the soul of a fetus that did not have a smooth birth for various reasons. Different situations require different approaches:
A little life from a miscarriage will naturally return to the queue for reincarnation and will not linger. Therefore, special handling is usually not required. If you wish to do something for them, you can give them a name and send your blessings, but this is out of your own heart, not a "must."
The situation with abortion is more complex. The little soul may remain in a certain state, waiting to be settled. This can be handled through free queuing assistance or a paid direct arrangement.
"Since I was a child, I could see and hear my three unborn siblings. They were the Fetal Spirits from abortions my parents had due to financial reasons."
From kindergarten to entering the workforce, I was constantly affected by them—pushed off the bed, ridiculed, and even told to commit suicide. I was always inexplicably targeted until I understood their situation.
They were not born as malicious spirits; they were forced into this state. When I chose to understand their plight, our relationship transformed. This experience made me deeply understand that:
Therefore, I will not use scare tactics. I only hope to use my experience to help you and the little life find a peaceful way forward.
Below is a real case dialogue demonstrating the complexity of fetal spirit karma— a fetal spirit is not necessarily caused by your own abortion; it may have been taken on through compassion for someone else's karma.
Me:
You have a karmic creditor, from your love life—bad personality but you liked him a lot. My examination shows this doesn't belong to your past life, but there is this connection... I see it's related to this male (because I'm reading it as a child).
Her:
I've never had an abortion myself, but my mother has.
Me:
It's related to this man. Your mother's fetal spirit exists but isn't following you. This connection shows it's been 3-4 years.(This method of mine is not something you can do on your own, nor can it be achieved by simply using a pendulum to ask questions)
It turned out that her ex-boyfriend's previous partner had an abortion. At the time, out of compassion, she felt "his ex had it so hard being with him" and voluntarily took on the child's karma.
Source: Threads Case Sharing
"Believing that an aborted fetal spirit is a 'soul blueprint' chosen by the Higher Self is a fallacy. If everything is pre-arranged by the Higher Self, doesn't that mean you're just a puppet of your own soul?"
Some New Age teachings will tell you "this is the soul's choice" or "this is a lesson between you two," trying to make you avoid dealing with and facing the issue. But this reasoning is actually an escape from responsibility and a disrespect to the little life.
True healing is acknowledging what happened, then properly handling it so both parties can move forward.
Different handling methods for different situations
Many people worry that fetal spirits will "cause trouble," but in reality, children love their parents. They just want to be acknowledged, remembered, and treated well. Handling fetal spirits is not about "driving them away," but about helping both parties move forward peacefully.
Free assistance for fetal spirits to enter the queue, allowing the child to be arranged at the appropriate time. This is the deities' work; I am merely assisting in the process.
Cost: Free
Please sincerely choose the type of good deed you wish to do as a vow
If you wish for the child to be directly arranged for reincarnation rather than waiting in queue, this requires my personal skills and abilities, hence a fee is charged.
Cost: Please inquire via DM
If referral to another practitioner is needed, I will not charge any referral fee
Miscarriage/Stillbirth: Generally, no special handling is required. The little soul will naturally return to the queue for reincarnation. If you feel uneasy, I can help you check their status for free to give you peace of mind.
Abortion: These situations are more complex, as the little soul may remain in a certain state. I can assist with a free check to see the current status and advise if handling is needed and which method is suitable.
Reminder: Don't scare yourself with online stories about "haunting Fetal Spirits." Every situation is different and requires an actual assessment to determine the course of action.
Free Queuing Assistance: This places the Fetal Spirit in a "waiting area," where deities arrange the time for reincarnation based on various factors (merits, timing, etc.). The waiting time is uncertain; it could be quick, or it could take a longer time.
Paid Direct Arrangement: I use my own abilities and techniques to proactively arrange a destination for the Fetal Spirit's reincarnation. This requires my energy and time, so a fee is charged.
Both methods are effective. The choice depends on your situation and needs. It's not that "paid is better," but rather "what's suitable for you is best."
The most important thing is your intention. Regardless of the method chosen, you need:
If you choose the free queuing option, you also need to voluntarily do good deeds to fulfill your vow. This is not a "transaction," but a cycle of kindness.
Yes. A Fetal Spirit is not just the mother's concern; the father also has a responsibility and connection. If you are a man who has had such an experience, you can also seek resolution.
Sometimes, when men come forward to handle it, the effect can be very positive, as the child also needs to feel the father's care and acknowledgment.
If you have already participated in a Transcendence ritual at a temple or elsewhere, I recommend you first confirm the actual status. Sometimes, even after a ritual is completed, the Fetal Spirit may not have truly been liberated.
I can help you verify if the previous Transcendence was completed and the child's current status. If it's confirmed that everything is settled, then nothing more needs to be done.
Source: Threads Post
Everyone's experience is different. Some people feel a sense of release in their heart, some see the child in a dream saying goodbye, and others gradually feel that certain stuck areas in their life begin to flow.
But it's also normal for some people not to feel anything special. Handling a Fetal Spirit is not for the sake of a "feeling," but to bring the matter to a proper close.
Important: Do not expect to have a "turn of luck" or "get rich" after the resolution. This is not a transaction; it is healing.
Answering Questions from Mothers
Why is it recommended to handle memorial tablets, dharma ceremonies, and spiritual rites within three years of abortion?
Please understand first: you cannot use adult wisdom to demand how a soul with reset memories and no wisdom should behave.
Formation and Attachment: Children have no wisdom. Suddenly torn from the mother's body, they inevitably develop negative emotions during this experience. Not knowing where to go, they naturally follow the person they were originally attached to (the mother).
Transformation into Karmic Debtors: They will be transformed by cosmic law into your karmic debtors, needing to collect debts from you to obtain survival resources. But fetal spirits don't want to harm you or collect debts — they just felt very uncomfortable during the birth process and only want to stay with you, not knowing this will hurt you.
During this long period, they develop differently based on their personality traits. When parents cannot guide them directly, they observe your life and are deeply influenced by the spiritual energies you attract.
Path 1: Self-Denial and Hiding
"As long as parents treat my siblings well, that's enough. I'm not important. But I notice that staying near mother makes her condition worse — is it because my very existence isn't worth living?"
Path 2: Replacement and Resentment
"Maybe I want to replace this child. I want to be taken seriously. Why can't I replace them? I begin to hate, feel unwilling, feel resentful."
Path 3: Seeking a Way Out but Falling into Danger
"Is there another way out? But I can't leave mother, so I can only seek help through the spiritual entities mother encounters — and this is the greatest unknown danger."
Path 4: Self-Sacrifice and Soul Damage
"I hope to bless mom to become better. It doesn't matter about me." This is the purest mindset, least harmful to the mother, but causes the highest damage to the child's own soul.
Path 5: Resentment Due to Parents' Attitude
Seeing parents focused on pleasure, not wanting children, even showing disgust toward kids. "Then I will resent you. I will use my greatest ability to obstruct you."
"Others" here refers to the person who actively took or suggested the abortion. In most cases, yes. A child without wisdom = driven by emotions, feeling only infinite grievance, dislike, hatred, and confusion, with no loving intention toward others.
A wise child may actively choose to collect debts from the father. If not properly handled in this life, the father will bear the consequences in the next life, or it becomes a karmic debt between father and child in this world. If only the mother handles it and the father shows no sincerity? Then it becomes a karmic debt between father and child.
If you truly want to stop this situation, you should not continue indulging in spirituality — you need to stop.
The goal is to help parents gain a deeper understanding of the world of fetal spirits. To promote awareness of arranging proper rites for the children, with no other purpose.
It requires great merit and effort, and the child's determination must be strong enough to return. Personal advice: it's not recommended to use various methods to determine if it's the same child, and you should not treat a newborn as a substitute with a compensatory mindset.
If you have questions about Fetal Spirits or wish to proceed with a resolution, feel free to contact me via Instagram direct message. I will provide advice based on your situation.
Here, there is no judgment, only understanding and assistance.
Whatever your experience, you deserve to be treated with kindness.